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Swingers in Perth

Married for the last 15 years committed to one another in good times and in bad has become quite a journey. A journey that had become quite dull and usual day in and day out we were in a rut. We were in peril in Perth we had been making love in every form together for the last 15 years. Every way that she could suck me, she did every way that I could lick her I did; no new tricks were left to be had. We did each other up, down, and every part of our home that we could it is not that the excitement was not there it was. What was though was done before it started to become nothing new for her or me.

Together we looked for new ways new techniques are we had done this before and there was none to be found. We were in a rut and both decided to try a new, so we search and decided to check out swingers’ lifestyle in the area of Perth. Together we looked in see pictures and descriptions of others that were swingers, which we found interesting. Together our excitement grew she could tell by my erection and I could tell because she had no problems with touching me as we shopped for swingers. That evening ended with us both in bed exhausted from f-ing each other.

The following evening my wife that we were going out to dinner for an adult date informed me. At dinner, she introduced me to her new friend that she found and her husband to my surprise her new friend gave me a kiss right on the lips. We sat for dinner my wife next to her husband and me next to her new friend as we spoke during dinner. It was not long after sitting that I felt our new friends and under the table rubbing my leg. Her husband arm around my wife as my wife stared into my eyes smiling. We all shared a bottle of wine and joked about her nervousness as I felt my new female friend with her hands rubbing between my legs.

From that day forward my wife, and I was no longer in peril in Perth, we had become Swingers in Perth, and were happier together than ever before. Swinging together has brought us out of our rut and into a completely new lifestyle

The condition of erectile dysfunction is something that is highly demoralizing to the male and creates a huge problem in not permitting him to enjoy a normal sexual life. While the first recourse for most would be to go to the sexologist for corrective action, they could also look at unorthodox methods to overcome this problem and who knows, they might just work for the persons affected by this disturbing problem.

a) All of us are aware that sexual activity is not only a physical activity but has got a lot to do with the mental health of the person as well. A change of scenario in terms of a short vacation might help the person get at ease mentally and lead to a better sexual performance. Simulating role plays by way of kinky sex or play acting the role of a dominant partner may also help sustain the erection long enough for satisfactory penetration. Fantasizing about the sexual partner is also another great method of sustaining erection and that could range from a celebrity to the neighbor next door.

b) Physical problems are best sorted out through medication in the form of pills for both partners to heighten the impact of sexual arousal and motivate the male partner to perform. These performance enhancing pills possess the advantage of equipping the individual with the confidence to culminate the act as per his desire and are very good as a temporary measure to perk up sexual performance. However, long term usage of such pills is not recommended.

It is definitely possible to cure this condition of erectile dysfunction through a combination of mental conditioning as well as medication in the short term.

Variety is the spice of life and sexual life is no exception. Many couples wish to go beyond the normal sex routine and want to keep trying different to enhance their sex life. So while they may have already experimented with different positions and engaged in kinky sex with all its variations, they may still be looking to introduce an element that is not only novel but also thrilling.  This is the possibility of allowing a third person into your sex life for a three some and that is really pushing the boundaries of sexual behavior beyond even wife swapping or partner switching experiments.
To go ahead with this however, both partners must be clear about some of the realities they will face. If the third person is going to be a woman, then there is bound to be lesbian action and while that may be acceptable to the man, if it is a guy, then the male must be prepared mentally to accept the fact that this third person will engage in sexual activity with his female partner and he should not be feeling awful about it later on.
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Men like variety and are always on the lookout to fulfill their fantasies either with their wife or with some other partner. Some of the most popular sexual fantasies of men are mentioned below. These have been identified after interviews with a lot of men.

a)      Though you might not be comfortable with furtive sexual gestures and groping in the public place, this is a great turn on for men and they would like nothing better than to fondle your breasts or gently squeeze your ass cheeks. In fact they would not mind going the whole way as the thrill of getting noticed or caught just adds to the excitement.
b)      You can agree to him making a dirty film on your lovemaking with the assurance that it will be erased after viewing it. Many guys get a thrill out of watching their partner in a movie indulging in sexual acts. You can protect your self further by covering your face so that anonymity is guaranteed.
c)       The concept of female dominance and sadomasochism is pretty much on every male’s fantasy list. You can use your silk stockings or a real sexy lacy bodice to tie him up and give in to this fantasy of either spanking him or letting him feel you selectively. You can also blindfold him and rub against him suggestively to really get him excited and raring to go.

There are really a number of ways to get a male excited. A strip tease is one of the most common acts that again is a fantasy that every male wishes his partner to perform.

It is not a surprise that many couples start finding their sex life becoming monotonous and stale despite trying out different sex positions and living out fantasies in the form of sadomasochism and even kinky sex, they find that the spark is missing. Gradually, this starts to tell on the relationship and that is something they must guard against.
So what could be the reason? One common cause is that people generally tend to indulge in sex more as a routine to be gone through at a given time and invariably at the same place on their bed. The solution could lie in making some simple changes to this routine, which could bring about a refreshing change. They are as under:
a) Having sex in the vehicle. Despite the space problem, it can be fun and thrilling.
b) Using your parents’ bed to try out a new position.
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Sex is an activity that is as much between your ears as it is between your legs. You can get sexually aroused through a variety of stimulants such as smell, hearing or even certain colors. It is not as if you always need to see a sexy woman in person or on the video to experience sexual arousal. Years of study by sexologists have confirmed that men and women can get sexually stimulated through some rather unconventional methods as given below:
a.) Fragrance and aroma of certain substances have the ability to arouse a male such as lavender or even pumpkin. The use of scented candles and oils has been recommended since long by many as very effective sexual stimulants. In case of women, it is the smell of licorice and cucumber. One can understand that cucumber by virtue of its shape may also be providing them visual stimulation as it resembles the male organ.
b.) The red color is believed to have the property of arousing red hot passion and sexual ardor and you will definitely be successful in enticing your male with dresses of this color. Read the rest of this entry »

Dating conversation starters

The task of going on a date the first time is fraught with a lot of tension and excitement. You are not sure about how the date is going to pan out and have various things running in your mind. Though you know that this is normal and everybody goes through these jitters, when it comes to your own self, you start feeling very nervous and apprehensive.

Even people who have known their dates for some time find it difficult to set the ball rolling when they meet and get tongue tied. So when it is the first time, it is natural that you are having so many questions about how to approach the event. The main thing is to break the ice and get conversation going so that the initial nervousness gives way to confidence and you are in better control.

Don’t forget that your date is equally nervous and may be looking at you to provide her with the confidence and put her at ease. You can break the ice with some rather simple questions that will serve to not only make both of you very comfortable but provide opportunities to expand on the conversation and make the evening more informal. Through these questions, you will not only get to know your date better, but also will feel encouraged to share some things about you making the conversation a dialogue. Do remember however, that you should not be seen to be very aggressive in trying to force responses or answers to your questions from your date as it can put her off and spoil the evening. You need to exercise tact and restraint while going through this process and build confidence in your date that you are not trying to be intrusive about things but just wanting to know her better.

Typically, there may be certain topics that may be sensitive to your date and she may not wish to give direct answers to them. At these times, you need to take it slowly and not rush into any pre judgments or form opinions. They may be very premature and will not help you forge a good relationship for the future. The idea is to keep the conversation light and casual.

Some of the questions you may ask and in no specific order are mentioned below. These are time tested and will surely work for you. They are by no means exhaustive and you can add more depending on the situation.

1. Where are you working and how do you find your job?
2. What do you like and hate about your job?
3. Is this your first job?
4. Do you have many close friends?
5. Can you tell me something about your home and family?
6. Who do you like in the movie industry?
7. What kind of music you like to listen to?
8. What are your hobbies?
9. How do you like to pass your time?
10. Are you fond of shopping?
11. What are your favorite hang outs for shopping?
12. What are your food preferences?
13. How do you like to relax?
14. What is your opinion about saving money?
15. How serious are you about physical fitness?
16. Do you like pets?
17. What has been your best vacation?
18. Are you an extrovert or an introvert by nature?
19. If you had enough money and could retire immediately, what would you like to do?
20. Do you regret anything in your life?
21. If you had super powers, what would you do?
22. What is your concept of romance?
23. What is the worst purchase you have done till now?
24. Have you ever tried gambling?
25. What puts you off or makes you upset?
26. Do you fancy tattoos and piercing?
27. Are you very tech savvy?