Unusual and Fun Ways to Spice up Your Sex Life
Having sex can be a fun and pleasurable experience in a relationship. Things are often interesting when you’re with someone new or when you have been with that special someone for an extended period of time. But it is common for things to get boring after a while. Understanding the needs of yourself and your partner may help give an idea on how to spice things up in the bedroom. When it comes to shaking things up, the following ideas may help in discovering your own ways of bring new excitement into your sex life. Keep in mind that some of these ideas are out of the ordinary, but in some cases you may need to come out of your comfort zone.
- Engage in foreplay for an extended time period, about 15 or 20 minutes. The few extra minutes may help you get into the mood and turn into more pleasurable sex. Caress each other longer and talk about favor parts of each other’s bodies.
- Share wild sexual fantasies. Talk about those kinky sexy things you want to do or what you want to see your partner do.
- Pamper yourself and/your partner. This can go either way. You can pamper yourself by seeking some sexy lingerie to look good in for your partner or try out a fragrant body lotion.
- Give each other a massage. You don’t have to stop at the massage but look into other ways you can each pamper one another while being sensual.
- Avoid having sex for a while. This may sound like the opposite of what you want to accomplish but waiting a few days can help build up sexual attraction. Plus, knowing you can have sex whenever you want may be part of the reason why you got bored in the first place.
- Plan a sexual surprise. This can be anything you want. Whisper in your partner’s ear that you’re not wearing underwear while being out to dinner. Be naked when your partner comes home from work.
- Get creative outside of the bedroom. Be innovative about other places you and your partner engage sex. Maybe in the pool or in the backyard. Changing the scenery may help create a new sexual scenario.
- Play with your food. Cooking together can be a good start. Chocolate and wine have been known to be interesting aphrodisiacs. Feed each other with your fingers or your mouths.
- Take a vacation. Sometimes getting away from the norm can help you release and relax to allow you to enjoy sex better. Have fun sharing sexy thoughts on the beach or get exotic and try a sex resort.
- Send each other flirty sexy text messages. This can be a fun way to tease your partner throughout the day until you meet at bedtime.
- Have fun with sex toys. This can be an interesting way to bring playtime to bed. There are a variety of adult sex toys that reinvigorate senses and allow you to play with each other in new ways.