Secret Words That Turn Women On

A word is a single direct meaningful element of speech which can be represented audibly or in writing.

Words are quite interesting because they represent our innermost thoughts and desire. Deeps feelings can be represented with words. Be it a secret, for good or for evil means.

In a relationship, there are two major senses involved which enable us  express ourselves to keep the rhythm of romance flowing: The sound and the touch which can be interpreted as the use of soothing words and physical touch of a light kiss to intensify the deep feelings of romance and sex.

This two senses inter-relate to deepen and intensify the mutual connection between a man and woman to have a worthwhile romantic adventure.

The male and female sexual chemistry are opposite and alternate one another greatly. Men are turned on by what they see while women are turned on with words that they hear. What turns on a woman depends on how you use your words to attract them.

Over the years, men have developed new means not just to woo ladies and make them theirs but also to sexually turn them on with this same use of words.

Older generations composed poems  which later evolved to love songs better known as the rhythm and blues invented with carefully selected words to soak ladies to the bones when they listen to the lyrics.

As time went on males perfected their skills as the use of words evolved in to simpler and more effective versions.
Females naturally like to read meaning to every sentence males make, so males have capitalized on that.

Simple means were invented to turn a lady on instantly. Hello! that’s if she’s got some form of crush on you. Whatever little feeling she has for you could be intensified with the right words.

This is not hypnosis or magic, so don’t expect women coming to break down your door just because you told them certain words. Psychologically, this words always have an effect on ladies but they are quite good at hiding their sexual thoughts no matter how they feel.

When using words, touching a woman at the same time is risky. She could reject you even if she doesn’t want to. Allow the words to absorb properly into her psyche before making your move.

A woman would always crave sex for any man who breaks her sexual defenses with the use of the right words no matter the simplicity of these words.

Now I present to you simplified and harmless words that women sub-consciously see meaning to. You do not have to say them outright. Find a way to mix them with regular and suggestive sentences.

-DEEP:
•I am going to be busy tonight surfing DEEPLY into the internet.
•Do you like DEEP issues?

-THRUST:
•I know I can always THRUST you
•I THRUST you so much

-CUM :
•CUM with me
• Stay right here sweetheart I’m CUMMING.
•Only CUM when I tell you to.
•When are you CUMMING to visit? I can’t wait for you to CUM

-WET :
•Don’t tell me you don’t like cooking. Ladies like to get their hands all WET and dirty
•Did the rain beat you? Sugar you so dripping WET.

These are innocent words always act innocent because some ladies will look at you for obvious facial reactions to know if this words are deliberate.

Never try to throw in all the words at the same time. Make one sexual statement then go on with a normal conversation before you throw in a second sexually innocent bomber word.

More Words Are;

-CREAM:
•I love licking CREAM , ice ICEAM. Let’s go and grab some CREAM

-MORE:
• I always want MORE and MORE when ever I am hungry
•or you could use a combination of turn on words like; I know you want MORE ice CREAM

-INSIDE:
•when she makes you happy, you could say: you always make me feel so warm INSIDE

-HARD:
•don’t be so naughty, I am too HARD for you

You can also use more direct approach when your relationship is certain and you don’t need to be indirect any more like:

-TASTE:
•you smell so good, I keep wondering how good you would TASTE

-EAT & RAW
•I am so hungry I could EAT you RAW tonight

Always make the sentences short and directed at her so that each sexual word can stick its meaning on her.

Good luck and Always treat her right

Signs You’re Dating The Wrong Guy

It is not uncommon to start doubting yourself within a relationship but it’s how you deal with it that will make sure you can improve as a person and have fulfilling relationships.

Many young people rush into relationships and it’s quite easy for you to find yourself in a relationship that you don’t want to be in. Or it could even be a case of you entering a relationship and your partner changing their personality down the line. This is actually worse as you may not even realize that you’re not with the same person you started the relationship with. Here are 5 simple reasons that will tell you why you’re not in the right relationship.

1. You Aren’t Free To Express Yourself

When you’re in a relationship where you can’t be yourself you are constantly censoring your behaviour. You’re scared of what the guy is going to say in retort to what you say. When you are continually not expressing yourself, you start to become more reserved and eventually you probably will just stop speaking up as much in fear of being ridiculed. It’s a vicious circle that makes sure you never express your true emotions again.  This starts to create tension between the two of you because you aren’t relaxed and he will start to notice that.

2.You are rarely happy

Ask yourself this question, when was the last time I was really happy? If you can’t remember because it’s been so long since you felt truly happy, then it’s time you re-evaluate the relationship. If you were in a relationship with the right guy you would have no problems expressing yourself and being happy.  if you’re feeling unhappy so often, it’s definitely a case of a bad relationship. Your partner is supposed to make you happy, and if he fails at that then there is no point in staying with him.

3.It Becomes Draining

You know the feeling you used to get at school when you had to work with people you didn’t like, it sucked right? It’s that draining feeling where you know both of you just aren’t on great terms but you have to put on a facade to save face. This is what a lot of women in relationships do. They act like they’re 100% happy but in reality they are thinking about leaving every single minute. Your relationship should invigorate you instead of putting a strain on you physically and mentally.

4. Friendzone

This is not as negative a reason as the others but it’s still very much valid. In some relationships, the guy does not do enough to be considered a ‘boyfriend’. There is a chasm of difference between boyfriend status and friend status. The biggest difference is the sexual connection. Male and female friends tend not to have strong sexual feelings for one another but with a boyfriend the girl should attracted to him virtually all the time. This is generally down to the guy not being dominant or assertive enough in the relationship. Women love powerful men.

5.The Family and Friends

Have you shown him to your family and friends? If you have, do you feel awkward doing it? If you feel like your friends and family don’t like the guy and say things like ‘he’s no good for you’ maybe you need to think again about the relationship. This is because your family and friends are two groups of people that know you better than anyone else and if they think a guy is trash, it’s worth taking their opinion on board.

How To Last Longer In Bed

Sexual endurance is one of the most talked about subjects. In the past, most people did not have advanced methods to improve how long they lasted in bed but nowadays there is a plethora of methods and techniques that will no doubt increase the amount of time you can ‘last’ during sex. This article will help men out there that currently struggle with sexual endurance and even just sex in general. No one is born a sex god and there are certain ways to improve your performance.

It is not a fault for anyone trying to improve themselves sexually. It is not something that is openly discussed as many men feel ‘embarrassed’ but a lot of women will appreciate the fact that you are making a conscious effort to improve your sexual performance.

It’s important to understand this because the most important part of having sex is pleasuring your partner. Forget about pleasuring yourself, because you can do that on your own. Both engaged parties should focusing on pleasing eachother. This is why it’s important to understand what the needs and wants of your partner are.

Ways for better sexual endurance

Sure, there’s an abundance of techniques that will make you last longer in bed but one of the most fundamental ways to last longer is to simply relax. Certain practises such as yoga can help you control your bodily movements in a way that will make sure you last longer during sex. The reason this works is because the more control you have over your body the more control you will have over every single muscle. Over time you will be able to control your pelvis and buttocks which play a pivotal role during sex.

But yoga is not necessary for you to improve your relaxation control. It is possible to be able to relax efficiently via simply paying more attention to your breathing during intercourse. It’s not even about controlling, it’s all about noticing how you’re breathing. Just noticing your breathing patterns is enough. The most fundamental part of sex is to focus on the pleasure of the interaction rather than your performance. The more you focus on how you perform, the more likely you are to perform badly. This is because you have already set out in your mind to think about every single aspect of the intercourse rather than being free and letting it all happen naturally.

Once you know your limits and boundaries when it comes to being sexually aroused, it’s pretty simple to be able to control your urges to climax. This is why it’s harder when it’s your first time. After years of having sex you will be able to know when exactly to ‘finish’. This is because you have had so many reference experiences and your mind has got used to reacting in a certain way at certain times during sex. For example, if you have been having sex 5 years nearly everyday and each session is 20 minutes long, you would have clocked thousands of hours of sex time. That gives you experience and with experience you virtually know when the climax is going to happen.

Things to Think About While Dating a Cheater

Many claim they would not consider dating someone who has cheated in the past.  Yet, it is also possible for you to date someone who has cheated but you’re unaware they did it in their past.  There are dozens of saying about cheaters such as: “Once a cheater always a cheater,” and “If they cheated before they may do it again to you.” There are a variety of reasons why one cheats on another but depending on their past, why would you consider dating a cheater?

With so many reasons why a person cheats, many wonder why a person would even consider dating one.  Some who date someone who has cheated feel they can change that person.  Yet, many feel you are just asking to be cheated on yourself. There are people who feel they can look beyond a person’s past and focus on positive qualities about them.  Whether it is for good looks or funny personality, yet it becomes a different story if the person has cheated on you multiple times.  What does that say?

Something else to think about is what is considered cheating? Does a person have to sleep with another person in order to be called a cheater? What if your partner just kissed another person? What if you caught your partner flirting with another person? Cheating may be considered a physical act but some get hurt emotionally when learning their partner is being secretly intimate with someone they both know.

What are reasons why people cheat? When you think about this it is likely a lot of myths come to mind.  While some may be true it often depends on people involved in the situation.  Some feel men cheat more than women but this may not be true.  Another common reason why people believe a person cheats includes not being happy at home.  This may have some validity but if you are taking care of things in your relationship to the best of your ability, this may not be a reason for someone to cheat.  Even though a person may be happy at home and getting pleased in the bedroom, some who cheat may not like “perfection.” Meaning, it may not always be about sex but they could be lacking something they are not getting from their relationship.

Can a cheater be in love with you and still cheat? This is actually another myth: if someone cheats on you they don’t love you or have feelings for you.  This, believe it or not, may not be true.  A person can have feelings for you and even love you, yet for them to cheat on you basically means they may not have respect for you.

If a person is sleeping with their ex-lover but dating you, you would consider this cheating right? The cheater may not think so.  Since they have been with this person before in their past they may think that hooking up with them again is no big deal, even though they are in a new relationship.  While it’s nice to have honesty in any relationship, for most people, learning their partner cheated on them is a red flag to end or cut off the relationship even before it starts.

Online Dating Success of Male Sex Partners

Researchers conducted a study that includes reviewing men’s success in seeking a same sex partner through online dating sites.  The purpose of the study was to learn whether or not such dating sites for same sex partners were successful at matching people seeking a date or companion.  The study included reviewing how men seek a sex partner through sites known as “cruising websites.”    The study involved men of different age ranges, some who are HIV positive, with many admitting they utilize more than one website at a time to find a sex partner.

The concept of the study is something researchers wanted to explore in more detail since it is something rarely reviewed. Because more men are using online sites to seek a sex partner, researchers wanted to learn more about related activity. Data collected seeks to learn how efforts behind their attempts were successful (and to what degree).  Is success considered a long term relationship developing after meeting in person?

Men were invited to participate in an online survey that was designed for this purpose.  Men were invited through an advertisement that talked about learning more about cruising on the internet.  Over 100 men participated and provided data.  Men from 18 states from different ethnic backgrounds completed the survey and were between the ages of 18 to 68.  Most of the men were either bisexual or gay.  The survey collected data on a variety of topics including advertising data used in their ads, how many websites they have ads posted on, how often they have sex with those they meet, relationship status and other demographic details.

Over 50 percent of the men who submitted data were not in a committed relationship.  Close to 24 percent claim they were in a relationship. About 80 percent of the men claimed to be HIV negative.  Men who say they use cruising websites often to find a male sex partner were on average 35 years old.  Most men who claimed to use such sites were white (52 percent).  About 14 percent say they have ads on more than 5 different websites.  Many say they keep their ads posted for 6 months or more. When asked how often they log onto to websites with ads, over 60 percent say they log on to their website of choice at least once a day.

When asked about the accuracy of information included in the ad, about 95 percent say details are completely accurate.  About 40 percent say they include a face and explicit body pictures when they post their ad.  Men were asked about whether they would respond to an ad with a photo’ about 40 percent say they would respond to an ad with no picture.  Yet, almost 50 percent claim they were unsure they would if the ad didn’t display a face.  Overall, most men claimed to be successful in using cruising sites, with some meeting at least 10 different men within a year.  Men who were HIV positive met at least 20 on average.

Demographic Characteristics of Men Using Websites to Locate Male Sex Partners

Characteristics of Ads on Men Seeking Male Sex Partner Websites

Advertisement Pictures and Likelihood of Responding

Understanding of Sexual Needs

Research data collected from Southern California University participants’ reviews needs of sexual intimacy. The study is also known as NSIS (Needs for Sexual Intimacy Scale).  Different sexual issues were reviewed during the study including sexual desires, sexual attitudes and sexual awareness.  Males were viewed to have higher levels of sexual needs and desires compared to females, but the study takes a look at different concepts on a broader scale. This is due to sexual intimacy being seen as more than just meeting desires and motivations, according to researchers.

Over 400 male and female college students from Southern California University took part in the study. Most students who were part of the study claim they had sexual intercourse at least once. The students ranged from different ethnic backgrounds with many claiming to have had multiple sexual partners between the ages of 18 and 46.  Most of the students who participated were female.  Several admitted to being in a casual relationship while taking part in the study.

The study included rating over 20 sexual needs and they were rated on a scale of 1 to 5, with 1disagree definitely and 5 agree definitely.  The survey content featured phrases and descriptions that detailed sexual needs or general ideas.  Participants would rate each of these concepts accordingly.  Examples included “…to have more sex” and “…a partner I can manipulate.”  Certain areas related to dominance, sex. And affiliation saw higher scores.  The study also reviewed sexual orientation to get an idea if individuals would engage in sexual events without commitment.  Sexual awareness topics such as sexual monitoring, sexual assertiveness and sex appeal were also reviewed.

Details from different parts of the study were compared to earlier research findings to get an idea of shifts and changes.  Attitudes and relationships were also accessed such as “friends with benefits.” The study also reviewed intimacy-related measures including a game-playing love style that many claimed they enjoyed engaging in when sexual desires were present.  Males reported higher needs for sex than females, yet the findings revealed that men and women seemed to be aware of sexual needs quite often.  Those who claimed to not see a problem with having friendships with benefits seemed to have higher sexual desires or a greater sexual need.

Certain sexual behaviors seemed to have different connections. Some who felt the need for dominance may or may not have an unrestricted sexuality or openness to sex.  Romance didn’t always have a positive effect or association when it came to sexual needs. Content from the study may help researchers understand human sexuality, its relationship to intimacy and associated behaviors that result.  In the past, sexual needs and desires were found to be related to risky sexual behaviors such as failing to disclose an STD (sexual transmitted disease) to their partner prior to sexual activity.  Yet, results related to this study have researchers believing people may not practice safe sex as often or be tested for STDs regularly.  Those who may report having fewer sexual partners were less likely to use protection.

The diagram below shows participant answers where 65.4% were female from 18-46 year-old when another 34.6% were male 18-46 year-old.

You Spice Up Your Marriage by Engaging in Swinging

Swinging is a controversial topic when it comes to marriage.  Many believe that marriage is a sacred union that includes man and wife, but what happens when another couple gets in the mix? A swinger’s lifestyle may include different concepts that typical married couples are not used to.  Yet, many still don’t believe in whole idea and wonder why people engage in this sort of thing.

Physical intimacy is something often explored in a variety of ways but swinging makes it an unusual social activity that may not be for everyone.  As a non-monogamous activity it does bring a new perspective to being intimate with your partner or spouse.  Swinging includes a spouse engaging in intimate activity with another person outside of their marriage, with knowledge and consent from their spouse. The concept is popular in modern society that is enjoyed by married couples who are open with their relationship and marriage.

There are different ways married couples may begin engaging in swinging. It may start off as a threesome when a third person is brought into situation. There are swing parties that include other couples looking to match up with compatible couples or even by a liaison. There are different types of swinging couples and they often experience intimacy at different levels.  Some may engage in kissing one another while their partner is present. Some may or may not have sex with their partner presence.  A few engage in spanking, bondage and other physical interaction. Some may also engage in same-gender sexual interactions.

So why are more couples exploring swinging? This may depend on personal opinion but many say they enjoy it for different reasons.  Some say they knew they would swing before they even got married. Yet, they say it helps not to do it too often with some couples admitting to swinging just twice a year.  Many admit there is a certain appeal to it but you could lose it if you engage in it too often. One of the biggest issues many couples claim is that it helps address weakness in communication. Some enjoy having sex and swinging has actually helped improve their sex life and put it in overdrive.

Some couples claim they enjoy the lifestyle because it helps add excitement to their marriage.  A few couples make it known they are not limited in defining their understanding of what swingers do. Meaning, as a couple they make decisions about how they engage in the lifestyle. Each spouse is open for having new experiences but at the same time they are honest with one another.  Yet, some claim the activity has led to divorce for multiple reasons. Swinging may have benefits but both spouses should want to engage in it for it to work. It has also helped many couples stay married for 10 or more years. Taking time to explore the concept may help both spouses understand where they fit in.

Open Relationship Outside the Marriage

So the idea of your spouse wanting to date outside of your marriage makes you wonder whether or not it will have a positive effect on your relationship with your spouse.  In many cases it depends on how you look at the situation and how open you really are into allowing another person into your marriage.  What reasons does your spouse claim for wanting to date or be with another person outside of the marriage?  Does your spouse want you to engage in activity with this other person? How does this change or label the status of your marriage?

Many claim that the new fidelity to keeping love and understanding in today’s marriages includes having open relationships.  This may include swinging, having a threesome or one spouse deciding to have “relations” with a third person.  While marriage is often seen as a bond totally exclusive, in modern society more women and men are interacting more with each other. More marriages are ending in divorce. People are seeking all sorts of ways to save their marriage and it includes seeing other people while still being married.  But is this concept helping or ending marriages?

It’s obvious the rules have changed over the years. While many have a strict definition on marriage, the idea of having an open relationship is rising in popularity. Depending on whom you ask their definition of an open relationship may vary.  Some may have an emotional connection with a third person outside of their marriage that doesn’t include being physically intimate.

In many cases couples who encourage an open relationship may not do it for sexual purposes.  There may be true love within the boundaries that include sharing it with those you care about.  For example, a married couple may agree to an open relationship with one they know such as an old college friend.  Even having an open relationship with someone new could spark some excitement.  The idea for many couples is to introduce something new and different to their marriage, yet is it something you should do for your marriage?

Some think having an open relationship is better than splitting up or divorcing.  It often depends on why a spouse wants a relationship outside of the marriage to begin with.  Is it for happiness or sexual pleasure? Many feel that sex and love are two different things and seek to experience each differently with different people.  This may help alleviate frustration often experienced in long term marriages.  Maybe you and your spouse love each other but frustration experienced could be sexually related and you feel an open relationship with another person could help.

So is having a relationship or dating outside of your marriage a viable alternative? Some say yes.  Some claim it reduces infidelity. Few say they experience better sex. Yet, having an open relationship is something that could lose its charm if done too much or too often.  Many who are in open relationships or date outside of their marriage claim to have the best of both worlds with interesting sexual experiences and emotional security.

This topic has endured a great deal of controversy and confusion: Is it okay to have sex on the first date? Some say yes while others claim you should wait. In the end, it is a personal choice made depending on the situation of the individual. While many assume they know why it’s not a good idea to engage in sex on the first date, some feel there are benefits in having sex sooner than waiting until later.

It’s common to be encouraged to take things slow on the first date by enjoying the company of the person you are with. Many say you should take time to learn about a person before engaging in sexual pleasure.  But, more people are finding this theory to be taboo. Why? Many claim they fall in love with someone on the first date that included sex.  A large number of individuals claim they feel a strong physical attraction between each other; basically finding each other to be hot and thinking this could be their one and only shot at having sex.

An interesting concept many have admitted to included having sex on their first date even though the date was somewhat boring.  The sex may have actually the most exciting part of the date. Why is this? Most likely each person was in the mood or horny and just wanted to get laid.  But there are other reasons why people decide to have sex on the first date.  Some want to test sexual chemistry between each party; basically one is curious about sexual tendencies of the other and wants to see if they are compatible.  An example may include seeing if whether or not the person can get them aroused or in the mood.

For many, sex on the first date has led to marriage. The concept seems to find its way with many women who claim to not engage in sex on the first date.  Some feel this may sound funny but the fact that one night of bliss hot heavy action actually was the beginning of their extended courtship.  On the other hand, having sex on the first date includes typical reasons such as saying you got to have sex with the person or the fact that it led to having more sex in the future, except it’s more like a friendship with benefits.

As far as waiting to have sex and trying to avoid on the first date, there could be benefits in this area as well.  Some say they like the idea of waiting because it creates anticipation and romance. Waiting also creates challenges that encourage one to pursue the other with patience.  Many women like waiting to show they are not a slut or someone who is cheap.  Waiting is also credited for keeping things interesting between each other. You have the chance to evaluate one another while understanding each other’s intentions.  Plus, as the saying goes, good things come to those who wait.

Many people consider making love and having sex the same thing but is it really true? A few of us feel we are wasting time trying to differentiate love making and sex but some say we don’t make the argument clear enough.  Men and women have claimed there are differences between the two and it often depends on your situation. Plus, it may depend on how or who you are intimate with.

Love making seems to be soft and sensual while claiming to have sex can have more action involved. It’s funny because either way, you could get the same reaction from the other person. For example, if you mention to someone you want to have sex with them, they probably would look at you with a smile but with a seductive look other face.  Yet, if you say to them you want to make love to them, you could get the same reaction.  So, is there a difference in love making versus having sex?

Some say yes depending on the circumstances.  If you are making love with your partner chances are you have been together for a while, at least 6 months or so. It’s likely you are in love with each other and have a deep physical attraction, especially in bed that includes passionate sex.  On the other hand, having sex may just be foreplay or sex with someone you just met.  The sex may not last as long but it could also just be a way of getting contentment for personal sexual desires.

In other words, having sex may not include an emotional love connection, but just getting pleasure below the bellybutton.  Some say that having sex with someone you may not know as well could be confusing, yes confusing. This is due to not really knowing sexual tendencies of the other person. In the end, you could just be having sex for pleasure and nothing more. There could be some fun mixed in while trying to figure out how to kiss but in many cases, one follows the lead of the other until they get better connected.

Sometimes having sex leads to getting a better connection with the other person and eventually falling in love.  Having sex may bring pleasure down there but many agree that making love feels good, if not better.  Many consider love making to feel better since it includes moving in unison at a slower pace, bringing emotions together and evening enjoying more foreplay.  Making love also tends to make both partners feel more comfortable with each other while being aware of body movements being made.

Many also feel that making love doesn’t include awkward positions like having sex involves.  But of course, many have their own opinion. Some who make love to their partner say they enjoy having sex with them as well; meaning they enjoy getting pleasure when their horny but without the emotional connection.  Several also feel it is more fun to have sex than to make love.