Variety is the spice of life and sexual life is no exception. Many couples wish to go beyond the normal sex routine and want to keep trying different to enhance their sex life. So while they may have already experimented with different positions and engaged in kinky sex with all its variations, they may still be looking to introduce an element that is not only novel but also thrilling. This is the possibility of allowing a third person into your sex life for a three some and that is really pushing the boundaries of sexual behavior beyond even wife swapping or partner switching experiments.
To go ahead with this however, both partners must be clear about some of the realities they will face. If the third person is going to be a woman, then there is bound to be lesbian action and while that may be acceptable to the man, if it is a guy, then the male must be prepared mentally to accept the fact that this third person will engage in sexual activity with his female partner and he should not be feeling awful about it later on.
Besides this understanding, it is often necessary to let go of any inhibitions as that will play spoilsport in such a threesome scenario. Some alcohol and some sex enhancing drugs may help in shedding this inhibition. However, it is important that the male does not end up getting drunk as he has to be active with two female partners and has to satisfy both of them. A threesome fantasy is pretty common amongst males, but they have to be up to it and perform when fantasy becomes reality.