Married couples take vows to be faithful, loving, caring and all that, but is it possible to maintain a successful marriage AND an open relationship at the same time? It is easy to cheat on your spouse and many people do it. Cheating often leads to personal tragedies, divorces and all kinds of nasty stuff (including STDs!). However and in theory, a mutually open sexual relationship while in a marriage, can be both amazing and liberating for both the man and the woman; can this be anything more than theory though?
Yes! Below I will explain how marriage and an open sexual relationship can indeed coexist.
A matter of trust
As with most intimate things in life, sex is a matter of trust. If you or your partner wants an open sexual relationship while in marriage then you must trust each other. In an open relationship scenario, just imagine your woman out on a date with another man, or your man spending the night in the house of a girlfriend; would you trust them enough with that. They will have sex, and come back to you later. If you are comfortable with that thought (and willing to have sex with other people while your partner is away) then it is not cheating but an open relationship. If you feel bad about the though, then you are probably not ready to do this.
The next day
This is the most important part to keep a marriage apart. Assuming you have agreed in an open sexual relationship and then you or your partner had sex with another person. What do you think must happen next?
Nothing! You can resume your normal married life and not worry about it. Many couples make a drama out of an open relationship but in reality, if both parties tell each other about whom they want to have sex with and when they had sex with another person then an open relationship can proceed smoothly without drama and break-ups. It is best if you get to meet the lovers of your husband or wife in an open relationship. This prevents demonization and enforces trust (and may lead to hot threesomes too!)
The best of both worlds
If you and your partner have agreed to have an open relationship while married then you must know that there are numerous ways to go about it.
First, keep your family life and your sexual life separate. Your kids or relatives don’t need to know about your open relationship; this is a thing between the man and the woman alone.
Second, it is best to plan things ahead. If you have a hot date with a sexy college student in a certain day, then it is best if your partner also had a naughty date at the same day. Waiting on your partner to finish and come back home can be nerve-wrecking and why waste that time alone?
Third, swinging clubs and swinging with friendly couples present an interesting solution for married couples in an open sexual relationship. When swinging, you get to know who has sex with your wife or husband and actually have sex with their spouses too! If your swinging partners are hot and willing then swinging can be amazing and long-term fun. Weekly swinging with the same or other couples can maintain a healthy open relationship while in an equally healthy marriage; truly the best of both worlds!
Many couples confuse marriage with monogamy and an open relationship with polygamy while in fact these are totally unrelated. Armed with the above information you now know how you can both maintain a loving marriage and a raunchy sexually open relationship at the same time!