It is not a surprise that many couples start finding their sex life becoming monotonous and stale despite trying out different sex positions and living out fantasies in the form of sadomasochism and even kinky sex, they find that the spark is missing. Gradually, this starts to tell on the relationship and that is something they must guard against.
So what could be the reason? One common cause is that people generally tend to indulge in sex more as a routine to be gone through at a given time and invariably at the same place on their bed. The solution could lie in making some simple changes to this routine, which could bring about a refreshing change. They are as under:
a) Having sex in the vehicle. Despite the space problem, it can be fun and thrilling.
b) Using your parents’ bed to try out a new position.
c) A public place like a park after dark.
d) Using the kitchen or bathroom floor. The unusual nature of the place itself should act as a great sexual stimulant and encourage raw and steamy sex. Make sure you have some good soap suds for an erotic rub down and massage.
e) In a thickly wooded area where there is better privacy.
f) You could think of having a romp in the laundry room if you are staying in an apartment block and the thrill of being either subject to voyeurism or being caught will only fuel passion.
g) In the elevator. This is fraught with great risk and you need to be real quick, but that is the differentiating factor which sets it apart from any other experience.