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Exposure to light can make you randy

Bright light increases male libido

Given that most of the time, when people want to have sex, they tend to turn the ligh down low. Well, maybe that is not the best way to go about it, if you are a man with low sex drive. According to this article on the BBC, men with low sex drive can actually increase their sex drive by turning up the light, or more accurately, by having light exposire therapy.
Except from the article follows:

Exposure to bright light can lead to greater sexual satisfaction in men who have low sexual desire, a new study suggests.

Scientists from the University of Siena in Italy found that using a light box, similar to those used to treat some forms of depression, increased testosterone levels.

And this led to greater reported levels of sexual satisfaction.

But they said more research was needed before it could be used as a treatment.

The researchers carried out their study on 38 men who had been diagnosed with disorders which cause a lack of interest in sex.
Bright light

One half of the group was treated with a light box, while the other half was treated with an adapted light box which gave out significantly less light.

They were treated for half an hour early in the morning for two weeks.

When they retested the participants, they found that the group exposed to the bright light tripled their sexual satisfaction scores while the control group’s scores stayed roughly the same.

The researchers also found that testosterone levels increased in men who had been given the active light treatment from around 2.1 ng/ml to 3.6 ng/ml – but the control group showed no increase.

Prof Andrea Fagiolini, who led the study, said the increased levels of testosterone explained the greater reported sexual satisfaction.

you can read the full article here: http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/health-37383689

Are There Justifications for Cheating?

Cheating has affected many of us at one time or another and many of us have ourselves cheated at one time or another. Many of us feel guilty about cheating whilst some of us think it is acceptable under certain circumstances. With that in mind we look at the question of whether there are justifications for cheating.
Many people think that there are no acceptable justifications for cheating. This is in many ways the dominant opinion in society and the media. In most circumstances there are many better courses of action than cheating and if you are considering cheating you should probably try some of the following courses of action and ask yourself some questions.

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Can Cheating be Avoided?

The question of cheating is one that unfortunately occupies many of our minds and affects millions of relationships. Cheating can happen for a number of reasons and in a number of circumstances ranging from breakdown in a relationship to too much alcohol and an awful next day. With that in mind we decided to look at whether cheating can be avoided and how you should avoid it where you can. For the purposes of this debate we’re going to delineate between two kinds of cheating – flings and more extensive extra-relationship relations.

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Six Ways To Get Out of a Sexual Rut

How to get out of sexual rut

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Getting to a relationship can be arduous work. The path to a great one can take awhile and be filled with devastating bumps along the way. But just because you finally landed a relationship worth staying in doesn’t mean the work suddenly stops. Just like a job, you did the work to get there, but now you have to stay there. However, this work is a lot more fun than your 9-5.

One of the key elements you have to work on is your sex life. Some people are naturally adventurous and never tire of each other, but the rest of us frequently fall victim to ruts and routines. These things are perfectly normal, but it’s imperative that you work on them. A failing sex life can ultimately be the demise of any wonderful relationship, so let’s make it thrive. Follow some of these tips to get things interesting again and your partner coming back for more.
Relocation:
Bored of your surroundings? Simply move beyond your bedroom walls. You have a whole house, a whole car, a whole community to play in, don’t limit yourself to your bedroom. If full on exhibitionism isn’t your thing, you can try getting handsy and making out in public. Go places that don’t allow you to progress further. This will just leave you both wanting more. If you’re nervous about it, start small and step it up each time. Small might mean your hallway or a hotel balcony. It’s up to you.

Identity:
Why not be someone else for the evening? Role playing http://www.lovepanky.com/sensual-tease/seduction/sexual-role-play-guide allows you to lose yourself in a fake someone else. Throw on a wig, an outfit and accent and you’ll find that you suddenly feel a little more confident, bold and daring. Create scenes and scenarios for each other to see what turns you on.

Toys:
There’s a reason we played with toys when we were kids: they were fun and fueled our imagination. So why forego using them as adults. I don’t think we should. Head to your nearest novelty shop or online sex store like Adam and Eve and pick out a few toys that excite you and your partner. Toys can help you explore each other’s body, learn something new about your own and break out of a sexual mold you may have been in. With millions of toys on the market, you’re bound to find something that speaks to you.

Three:
This one is for the bold and stable. Do not proceed in this section if you have jealousy issues, relationship problems or massive insecurities, because you will only make things worse. However, if you feel like your relationship and emotions are stable and your sex life just needs a pick me up, bringing in a third person might be a fun option. Make sure you and your partner are aware of the consequences before doing so, such as jealousy, affairs, lost trust, and overall drama. If you think you can handle it, you’ll find that the benefits are awesome. Be sure to pick someone you know and trust, but aren’t great friends with. It’s also easiest if they are single. Make sure there are no prior crushes or major attractions to this person.

Movies:
Like the idea of a third, but don’t know anyone or feel like your relationship could take it? Totally fine, bring in a pseudo third, fourth and even fifth by watching porn together. Use porn as a way to inspire you, to turn you on or to talk about positions and themes that you’ve never participated in before. Then be sure to keep it playing while you’re having fun. The on screen fun might even inspire you to be more vocal.

Food:
Why have dinner at the table when you can have it on your partner? Bring food into the bedroom to make things feel a little more risque and a lot more exciting. You can try eating food off of each other, using the typical chocolate or whip cream, or bring out the big guns like zucchini and cucumbers and see what kind of fun they can inspire. Be sure to throw away these vegetables afterwards.

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Love Scanner

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